Sportiness

Sportiness 

Human life is so designed that we will face many situations in life and learn many things from them. But still many of us are not extracting benefit from every experience. Instead we grumble,murmur and worry. We have to take each and every step in our life sportively. We 
should not upset.Many people feel that they are worthless and inferior compared to other people.The result is depression and hopelessness.Remember,never compare.Instead better take corrective measures.definitely there is scope for improvement .
What happens in sports?Say a cricket match. Two teams play in one day match which is common now a days. Obviously one team has to win.the other team i naturally defeated. The members of the team defeated should not loose heart. 
It is because they participated the other party or team won in the match. So there is definitely credit. Likely, life is a game we have to play. We have to put efforts to succeed. We cannot win in a successful manner unless we do well. Sportivencess is essential in all walks
of life. Treat every day as a new day born. There will be same new thoughts which you can adopts and proceed. Life is a Journey. There are halts and proceeds. When there is a halt you will have time and scope to revise or estimate how you have moved. We can learn from every
situation. No two situations are alike. Every moment is different from the other. We must have patience and sportiveness to notice it.
Look;In an office there will be an office as well as a poem. In between other officials work.With this we can conclude that will be people who will be above you and always there will be people who will be below you.It is the nature of the world.
You may own a Maruti car. But there is Lancer car with your friend .That does not mean you are inferior. Another person working with you may come by walk to the office. Won't you talk with him . Do you feel you are superior to him and discard him? 
No. When such is the case where is the difference. In this world we need every person. Unless a driver takes you to office,can you go alone? So, in spite of your status or below status be sportive.  You will improve yourself. People like your personality,Have you 
not read the story He was called Mahamathma the great soul. What was he wearing?It is the quality of life maketh a great personality.
You should try to solve your problems by yourself and take your own decision. People who have become great and successful are so because they have taken risks and independent decision in their life. Sportveness and enthuse have enabled them. What did Tilak,
 the great freedom fighter, do in prison ?He wrote a commentary on 'Gita.'Even today it is acclaimed as a best commentary on Gita. To become great you have to cross one ditch or the other in your life. Mere grumbling won't help.Sadists never come up. A fully developed personality
is always a servant of all. Great person become more and more humble as they gain more and more wealth or power. They appreciate others for the good things. They never envy anybody. As already said ego,pride and arrogance lead to a downfall of the person. 
We should become humble as we rise more and more. Consider yourself as a part of this universe. You are not alone. Be sportive.you are not different from others. All of us have common needs and common goals. Then why should be there ego?
Of course, we move in the society with many others. All fingers of a hand are not same. We cannot expect everyone to be like us.People differ. Our duty is to become one with all. There are chances that a person (or persons)misbehave with you.Even he may start fighting with you for 
no valid person. But if you also quarrel with him there will not be a peaceful situation.Don't lower down your level to the level of that person who misbehaving with you.DO not get up set.It is the nature of that person to remain tense. Better you have to keep quiet.
You have  to ignore such as a person. If you bother about him and argue with him it shows that you are giving him importance and so the quarrel continues  If you have ego you will argue. Otherwise you will ignore. Nothing wrong.
It is a well known fact that we cannot teach anybody any lesson  Committing mistakes is quite natural for human beings. If we learn a lesson from the mistake and improve our self our personality shines.
This world is very complex.People are highly sensitive- The world is not set to suit our requirements. We have to adjust ourselves.At certain times, compromise is essential. It is not a sign of weakness or slavery. Actually you need more strength for such compromise during a fight
or an argument.