Conclusion

25.Conclusion

Personality development is the much discussed subject today. It is said that a personality from his early age.If there is no constructive development in one's personality all other achievements like education, career or It is just like a patient who has every comfort but his disease is not cured.It is a common practice among students that whenever they are asked the question what they would become.
I wish to become a Prime minister
I wish to become a software engineer
I wish to become a surgeon so that I can earn lakhs
I wish to go abroad and earn more money.
These are the answers you get. But none of them would say that they wish to become a human that too a perfect a human Dr.S Radhakrishna, the great Philosopher once said that man has learns to swim in water,fly in air but he has not learns to become a human. One of the basic advantages of personality development is to become a human.
Every individual has a personality of his own.People usually say when they speak of personality of different personalities;He has handsome personality 'He has a wonderful personality 'such statements reflects only the outer features of a person indication handsomeness,good look, calmness etc.but not the real distinctive character.
There are no short cuts to personality development. You know Rome is not built in  a day .Like wise personality cannot be achieved overnight .Can electricity be produced just by allowing water to flow from a height or producing steam? There are different stages. Water has to be stored and then it is made to flow under pressure through the turbines (steam also). A generator coupled to the turbine rotates as turbine rotates. 
The generator produces electricity due to electromagnetic induction. The personality development is similar. It has to be acquired in stages. Action plan for the same has to be changed out.
Be motivated
Be dynamic
Don't have fear of failing or fear of rejection. Be able to use your talent Be on improvement side.Evaluate your achievements now and then. Achieve your set goals.Have a plan to accomplish.
Remember
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Good communication skill,self discipline, Analytic mind,Interpersonal skills,Integrity and honesty, sharp and quick flexibility, able to cope with dead lines and stress all these lead to personality development. You have to be good, loyal,innovative to become a winner. The winner always have a programmed. There are several factors as described above, and they influence one's personality.But the chief factor is that everyone should retain the individuality and idiosyncrasy.
Attain a Towering personality .Have a pleasing personality. 

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Duty

2.Duty

Duties differ from person to person according to situation in the house, office
or school or college, in society.but duties have to be performed well. if a person
fails in his  duties it not  only affects himself but others also.
Suppose a doctordoes not perform his duty diligently, the result would br fatal.
The patient may lose his life. if a pilot has no sense of his duty, 
the plane may fall and huge number of persons die. Duty is our responsibility.
If a father does not, - educate his children,
 - perform his daughter's marriage
 -look after his family what would be the 

situation? Duties have to be discharged efficiently and to the best of one's ability.There is not a moment without some duty.Everyone in this world has a duty to perform. for example a student's first duty is to study. A house wife has to manage her house.

A father has to earn enough money to maintain the family. Nobody should escape from his/her duty.

Duty consciousness should be inculcated in every one from early childhood.

Success in anybody's life depends upon the way he or she discharges duties. 

The reward of one duty done is the power to full fill another. The saying by Lord Nelson during the battle of Trafalgar 'England expects every man to do his duty's is quite famous.

One thing we have to remember while a duty is done is the that we should not seek the fruits of action.
We have to do our duty renouncing attachments. We must be even minded in success and failure.
Remember the following:
-Neglecting duties could prove to be a failure in life.
-perform the alloyed duty efficiently
-Maintain health. Do not disturb the routine of others by being sick.
-Action(doing duty)alone is thy province and not the fruits thereof.
-Do your duty honestly
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Discipline

1. Discipline

During the course of personality development discipline plays a vital role.
Discipline begins at home. Discipline is applicable to all our activities .
 It is not restricted to a particulars period. discipline has to be observed 
throughout life. Have you not seen Sun? He has a definite schedule.
Like sun,the moon. similarly all seasons have to assemble daily at the appropriate
time for prayer and then move to their classes. In offices or factory work has to be
commenced at the right time.

discipline tells us the fact- a place for everything and everything in its place .

we cannot keep our foot wears in kitchen and cookery items in veranda.

Discipline teaches us to do things at the right time,in the right manner.

A person who is disciplined works freely. He will not be in tension. indiscipline leads to hurrying up and the result is tension. The works are not carried out up to the expectation.

Discipline curbs lethargy and enables to be punctual in all activities. Students  should cultivate being 

disciplined which helps them in their later life to achieve success indiscipline leads to procrastination.
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Good Behavior

Good Behavior

Good Behavior is a prime factor required for personality development. People consider good manners, courtesy  politeness and character and decide the culture of a person. Good behavior is an asset. 
Rude behavior is not liked by any.






Good behaviors may be listed as below 
1.Respecting elders in his family.
2.Treating young people in the family in a nice manner; Showing love and affection.
3. Favorable impression on others.
4.Greeting persons like bowing head, smiling,telling good morning or good evening.
5. As a boss, looking after his subordinates cordially.
6.As as employee,behaving well with seniors and women.
7.Honesty and sincerity.
8.Punctuality in all walks of life.
9.Speaking without emotion.
10.Rise to the occasion.
11.As a student,respecting his /her teachers.
12.Courtesy; A least expensive but buys everything. Manners maketh a man-
 Positive interaction with people is very much required. Man cannot sit alone. He has to move and mingle with people. Throughout our life at one or the other time we have to interact with others.
 With whomever it may be, our personal apperiance always counts much. Dress and manners should appeal. Dress maketh man.
 Sir M. Visveswariah gave importance to dress throughout his life. He lives for 102 years. Even in his old age he used. Wear suit and a turban on his head One should always wear neat dress. 
Who likes a shabby person?
Look better as we have to please others and not only that,we have to please others and not only that,we have to be clean also the total
effect can be made pleasing by being neat and well dressed. Then only inter action with people become fruitful. First impression is the best impression.Is it not so?

Interaction with people is very much significant in seminars, workshops, lecture halls, concerts business, assemblies etc.
Like dress, speech is also important. Our speech plays a vital role. Always smile. Do not have wrinkled face. Consideration for others is quite important.
So be uniform to all and be diplomatic.The way we speak to others is quite important. Let there be  economy of words. Speech must be clear, understandable.
Convey exactly what you mean . Some people know what they want to communicate but they will not speak clearly or else they speak loud or blunt.
While be speaking on proper communication, i Would like to stress the fact that the art of communication has to be learnt for a better personality.
You may have many ideas. But if you have no force to put forth them in an effective way for lack of good communication skills,
the ideas do not serve the purpose. So use the communication techniques to the best extent. Present them with confidence. Convey the message suitably. Use E mail speech, presentation
using PC with power point demonstration etc. You may use models if any. The communication should accomplish the desired effect.
Interaction with your associates, colleagues and workers is essential. communicate your ideas better. Be soft spoken.
Information about everything that is going on around you concerns your work and personality.
The speech or communication creates an image about you if your way of communication is proper and effective Suppose you are not a good speakers,
then do not forget to participate. Participation broadens one's horizon.

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